kya ye sach hai...?

Unke Har Aib Bhi Zamane Ko Hunar Lagte Hai !
Jinke Aangan me Amiri Ke Sahar Lagte Hai !!

एक सवाल ?

आंसू साफ़ करने वाला दिल के 

ज्यादा करीब होता है ...

                             
                     या 

  
          आंसू देने वाला...

Treat your children equally !!

Treat your children equally !!

Islam commands justice in all matters and this general ruling is applied to all children regardless of their sexes. Allah, the Exalted, states in the Glorious Qur'an:

(Verily Allah enjoins justice and the doing of good, and liberality to kith and kin, and He forbids all shameful deeds, wickedness, and injustice and oppression. He admonishes you that you may take heed.

[16:90]

Aishah, the Prophet's wife and the mother of the believers (may Allah exalt their mention) said: A poor woman came to my door carrying two little girls. I offered them three dates (i.e. since I had nothing else). She gave each of her two girls a date, and lifted the third one to her mouth to eat. Both her daughters urged her to feed them more, so she split the last date into two pieces and gave one half to each of her two daughters. I admired what the woman had done and told the story to the Prophet of Allah (Peace be upon Him) who said upon hearing it:

"Verily Allah obligated paradise for her due to this act of hers" or "liberated her from the Hellfire due to this act of hers."

[Muslim #2630]

And in another authentic narration he said at the end:

"Whoever is tested by trials in caring for these daughters, they will be a cover for him from Hellfire."

[Bukhari #1352 & Muslim #2629 ]

Islam calls for material and emotional justice and fair treatment from both parents to their children, regardless of their sexes. A male child is not to be given special preference over a female child, or vice versa. The Prophet of Allah (Peace be upon Him) said to one of his companions who had given a present to only one of his children:

"Did you give all your children like this?"

He said: "No."

He said: "Fear Allah and be just with all of your children."

[Muslim #1623]

तुझे ख़ामोशी ही अख्तियार करनी होगी ऐ जमां...

वो गुनाह करते गए अपनी आजाद ख्याली में... 

गुनाहों को जायज़ कहते गए दोस्ती की आड़ में...

हर जुर्म को बस यू कहा की ये तो सिर्फ दिल्लगी थी...
खूने जिगर भी करते गए दिल्लगी की आड़ में...

खूने जिगर पर  भी दर्दे  दिल को चीखने न दिया...
रास न आया उन्हें दिल के जज़्बात का ज़ाहिर करना...

तुझे ख़ामोशी ही अख्तियार करनी होगी ऐ जमां...
वरना आह भरने के जुर्म में फिर सजा होगी...

Let me Hide

TRUST

जिस रिश्ते की बुनियाद झूठ और मक्कारी पर होती है...

वो रिश्ते शीशे के घर की तरह नाज़ुक होते हैं...
ऐसे रिश्ते मजबूत नहीं होते...
कभी भी टूट सकते हैं...
***जमाल***

Hum Apnay Dil Ke Her Goshay Me Hindustaan Rakhtay hai

Milegi Manzile Maksud ye Imaan Rakhtay Hai, 
Hum Apni Rahnumai Ke liye Quran Rakhtay Hai, 
Mohabbat Watan Say Ho ye Islam Kahta hai. 
Hum Apnay Dil Ke Her Goshay Me Hindustaan Rakhtay hai.....

“Mom! Mom!”

“Mom! Mom!” shouted Zain at top of his voice.

“What is it, Zain. What has happened?” His mother rushed out of the kitchen in alarm.
...
“Mom, I don’t want to play with Zoya all the time. Will you play with me?” Zain asked pointing towards the Scrabble board under his arm.

“I am sorry Zain, I don’t have time to sit and play Scrabble. I have a lot of kitchen work to do.” His mother replied regretfully.





“Mom, you never have time for us,” Zain said crossly. “Is your kitchen more important than us? “

“Of course, it isn’t but I have to wash the dinner dishes and put everything away.”

“Then will you play with us?” Zain asked hopefully.

“I can’t, Zain. I still have to iron your school uniform for tomorrow and polish your shoes. And the living room is a mess. Your grandfather also needs his medicine. Some other time, huh?”

“You always say that and that time never comes,” Zain retorted in a huff.

His mother just laughed softly and shook her head. Zain went back to the living room in a bad mood. He opened the Scrabble board and glared at his younger sister who had taken a place opposite him. He thought about his mother and felt even angrier.

“She never plays with us. She never has time for us,” he thought angrily.

Zain looked idly around the room and saw that it was indeed a mess. His books and cricket stuff was scattered all over the place and so were Zoya’s toys. The newspaper his grandfather had been reading was spread under the chair and the cushions which Zain and Zoya had thrown at each other were still on the floor.

Zain suddenly felt very ashamed of himself. He grabbed Zoya by the arm.

“Hey! Let me go. It is my turn,” complained Zoya.

“Listen. Let us clean this room before mother comes in here. It will only take us a few minutes if we work together. Let’s give her a surprise.”

Zoya loved surprises so she abandoned the game. The brother and sister quickly put away all their things, straightened the cushions and cleared the floor. The room was spic and span in a few minutes.

“Take this medicine pouch to grandpa with a glass of water. Be careful,” he ordered.

“And what are you going to do?” asked Zoya.

“I’ll go and polish our shoes and set the uniform for tomorrow. We are old enough to do such things around the house, Zoya.”

Once again, the two children completed their tasks quickly. When their mother came out of the kitchen tired and weary, she got a lovely surprise. The messy living room was clean. The school shoes were polished and everything was laid out for next day.

“We are sorry, mother. I never realized how much work you have to do around the house by yourself. Now Zoya and I will help you every evening. Then you will have time to sit with us and play scrabble.”

His mother laughed and hugged them both. From then onwards, every evening Zain and Zoya would help their mother in housework and then watch television or play games together and that was the best part of the day!

generosity

जीवन में कभी समझौता करना पड़े तो कोई बात नहीं...


क्योंकि, झुकता वही है जिसमें जान होती है... 


अकड़ तो मुरदे की पहचान होती है... 

woh phir nahin aate

zindagi ke safar mein,guzar jate hain jo makam
woh phir nahin aate,
woh phir nahin aate
zindagi ke safar mein,guzar jate hain j
woh phir nahin aate,
woh phir nahin aate

phool khilte hain,
log milte hain
phool khilte hain,
log milte hain magar
patjhad main jo phool
murjha jate hain
woh baharon ke aane se khilte nahin
kuchh log ek roz jo bichad jate hain
woh hazaron ke aane se milte nahin
umra bhar chahe koi pukara kare unka naam
woh phir nahin aate,
woh phir nahin aate
http://www.free-lyrics.org

aankh dhoka hai
kya bharosa hai
aankh dhoka hai kya bharosa hai suno
doston shak dosti ka dushman hai
apne dil me ise ghar banane na do
kal tadapna pade yaad me jinki
rok lo roothkar unko jaane na do
baad me pyaar ke chahe bhejo hazaron salaam
woh phir nahi aate
woh phir nahi aate

subaah aati hai
raat jaati hai
subaah aati hai
raat jaati hai yuhi
waqt chalta hi rehta hai rukta nahi
ek pal me ye aage nikal jaata hai
aadmi theek se dekh paata nahin
aur parde pe manzar badal jaata hai
ek baar chale jaate hai jo din raat subaah shaam
woh phir nahi aate
woh phir nahi aate

zindagi ke safar mein,guzar jate hain jo makam
woh phir nahin aate,
woh phir nahin aate

jindgi ke safar me gujar jate hain jo ......

jindgi ke safar me gujar jate hain jo ......

What is legal but not logical, logical but not legal, and neither logical nor legal?

A young Law student, having failed his Law exam, goes up to his crusty
old professor, who is renowned for his razor-sharp legal mind.

Student: "Sir, do you really understand everything about this subject?"

Professor: "Actually, I probably do. Otherwise I wouldn't be a
professor, would I?"

Student: "OK. So I’d like to ask you a question. If you can give me
the correct answer, I will accept my marks as it is. If you can't give
me the correct answer, however, you'll have to give me an "A".

Professor: "Hmmmm, alright. So what’s the question?"

Student: "What is legal but not logical, logical but not legal, and
neither logical nor legal? "

The professor wracks his famous brain, but just can't crack the
answer. Finally he gives up and changes the student's failing mark
into an "A" as agreed, and the student goes away, very pleased.

The professor continues to wrack his brain over the question all
afternoon, but still can’t get the answer. So finally he calls in a
group of his brightest students and tells them he has a really, really
tough question to answer: "What is legal but not logical, logical but
not legal, and neither logical nor legal? "


To the professor's surprise (and embarrassment), all the students
immediately raise their hands.


"All right" says the professor and asks his favourite student to answer


"It's quite easy, sir" says the student "You see, you are 75 years old
and married to a 30 year old woman, which is legal, but not logical.
Your wife has a 22 year old lover, which is logical, but not legal.
And your wife's lover failed his exam but you've just given him an
"A", which is neither legal, nor logical !!!!!!"

Pregnancy Against All Odds

When Dr Firuza Parikh came back from the US to set up India's first private in vitro fertilisation (IVF) centre at Mumbai's Jaslok Hospital in the early '90s, her colleagues at the Yale School of Medicine were stunned: "Infertility in India?"

But over the years the queue outside her clinic kept getting longer. With about 10-15 per cent of Indians facing fertility problems, Parikh has delivered over 5,000 babies through assisted reproduction. Parikh, the director at the department of assisted reproduction and genetics, Jaslok, has just come out with a book to help young, hopeful parents conceive. Extracts from an interview:

Q: Why is infertility becoming a big issue in urban India?

A: Urban India suffers from what I call "voluntary infertility". A lot of couples have demanding jobs, they come back home exhausted, perhaps eat take-away food from fast-food outlets and drop off to sleep-to be functional the next day. This is a story that I hear from couples regularly. Also a lot of educated women defer marriage till they can afford a maid, a driver, a three bedroom flat. By the time they reconcile to the thought of having a baby their biological clocks have already slowed down. Then they have to make a baby "happen."

Q: Is male infertility a serious threat?

A: It accounts for 40 per cent of all infertility, primarily due to sperm defects. Sometimes this is brought on by external factors like tight innerwear, very hot baths, smoking, exposure to radiation and toxic chemicals. Sometimes there's a physiological basis-diabetes, hypothyroidism or genetic aberrations.

Q: What about infertility in women?

A: I see many young women who show signs and symptoms of polycystic ovaries, a condition associated with metabolic disorders and obesity. From job pressure to vehicular pollution, postponing parenthood to sexual liberation, fast food to sedentary lifestyle, all have been linked to infertility.

Conception Timeline

A: woman's fertility peaks between age 27 and 34. That's the best time to have the first baby. The best time to get pregnant? Watch out for the narrow window of time during ovulation, two weeks into the menstrual cycle. The life of a human egg is about 36 hours, while a sperm can survive in a woman's body for about 48 hours.

30% more chances of conception every month if a couple engages in unprotected sex at least three times a week.

Myth : Daily sex increases chances of pregnancy

Reality : No it doesn't. It may, in fact, bring down sperm count on the day of ovulation.

Source: The Complete Guide to Becoming Pregnant. Dr. Firuza R. Parikh. Random House India. 2011

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